Eventually his dick, in desperation, will adjust to newer, subtler sensations, and he’ll be able to get off without jackhammering. But he is not allowed to revert to jackhammering away at your pussy or his fist if he doesn’t get off. Here’s how you retrain his dick: your boyfriend stops doing what he’s always done-no more masturbating or fucking in the style to which his dick has become accustomed-but he keeps on having sex and he keeps on masturbating.
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> Hoping A Massive Masturbator Eventually Retrains Exacting Dick Can you recommend anything that would help him? Since I know firsthand this can be overcome and I accommodate him as much as possible, I think I’m being reasonable, but I’m sure you’ll tell me if I’m not. For what it’s worth, about half the time he just lets me come buckets and then gives up on himself. We’ve talked about it, and he says he’ll masturbate less, and that does help (read: now it’s a half-hour of jackhammering instead of hours), but I’m still eager for more variety-and to be able to walk after sex and ride a bike the next day. It hurts, it’s super boring, and it makes me feel like I might as well be an inflatable doll.
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I’m starting to get annoyed that he isn’t working harder to overcome this jackhammering reliance. It wasn’t easy, but I am so happy with this versatility. A few years before I met him, I toned down the masturbating to retrain my brain and pussy and tried a bunch of new things, and I can now come from different acts and positions.
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He can only come from masturbating furiously, or sometimes from a marathon of jackhammer sex. My boyfriend and I both spent a lot of time masturbating when we were young, and pretty much trained our brains to come only one way.